Guys,Games and Girls?

You know, i've been watching alot of tv programs lately, *not like i usually dont, HA!* i've am drawn to programs like Keys To The VIP. There are the judges such as Peachez, Alen, Sheldon *he's quite a hottie, teehee* and also Chris whom teach and guide the audiences on how to go about in approaching the ladies. The main thing is these 4 .. er... alpha male i would say, are the judges in this show. It's a competition where 2 playas are chosen to complete 3 rounds of tasks that are prepared for them.Keys to the VIP pits men against each other in real-life situations to see who can attract more beautiful women, quicker, and more successfully. All recorded on hidden camera, so the players got no where to hide. =]

It's very intriguing and its something that u can connect to, not as a guy of course, as the "victims" which is the girl. unless you're the opposite sex then its a different story..

i can't help but to think that, you know, approaching a girl in a party, club or even bar is merely a game. i guess that's where the words "player" come about. Then again, i guess it can be compared to a game because if the guy play their cards right, they might get what/who they desired for.

i pity them boys coz they have so much to think about when they want to get to know girls. You see, i could safely state that 95% of all the dating tips are for man, you could easily see articles circlulating around the nets with catchy titles like "How to approach women" " 7 body language that attracts women" and this really caught my attention that is "Art of Seduction"

There are also article to help women that is in need of any help. Just that i realise they focus more on helping man instead of women. This could be due to usually men will be the one that's making the first moves while women send signals *it sucks when they send mix signals ey?* in order to guide the men whether to proceed or step back. Coz by the end of the day, the men would wanna feel like a man *if you get what i meant* they would wanna play their part in the courting game, aight?

what i'm trying to say is, u cant deny the conventional customs where men always makes the first moves coz women do not usually does THE JOB or else whats the point of having men rite? BUTTTTTT... * i know there will be ppl stopping me if i dont say this* its not wrong for girls to make the move, just a subtle one will be fine. you should know ur limits, let the men bask in their glory and ego. HAHA *boys, do not take advantage of this k*

okay, i guess i have bore u to the core....
hehe.
let me show u something more entertaining.

READ this, please.... i find this a tad kinky and fiesty *one brow raised*

Getting Sexual On Facebook

Posted on 16 July 2008

This is girl I came across on facebook, when I was adding another chick that I had met while doing day game. I saw this girl’s picture and was blown away, so sent a quick message. Some facebook messaging, texts and phone calls later and this girl has agreed to meet me to have sex.

The transcript and commentary below details how I got from me saying, “Jesus Christ you are gorgeous,” to her saying “I’m sure me pleasing myself wouldn’t feel anything like you deep inside of me. My body twisting, moaning and begging for you to force yourself deeper and not to stop.”

Note that this sort of strategy isn’t going to work with every girl and for every guy. In this case, I have a good picture up on my profile (which is VERY important for online game), and some pretty cool pictures which the girl can browse too.

Here’s how it went down.

Soul: Jesus Christ you are gorgeous. X

This is my opening line. It’s simple, direct, and used as a screener. If she responds, then she’s complying with my attempt to pick her up. If she doesn’t respond, then I can move on to someone else without wasting my time.

Jenny: LOL! THANK YOU!

Soul: You are such a tease. There are only pictures of your daughter and a cat on your facebook! Can’t believe you don’t have any more of your gorgeous self.

You daughter is so cute by the way. You look like you’re half Asian?

I’m Sri Lankan. talk to me

Jenny: Everyone in the whole world says I look Asian! I’m actualy half Caribbean half English! And my daughter is half Turkish Cypriot! My cat’s the same mix as me!

I probably shouldn’t have mentioned the Asian thing. I think it’s always best NOT to mention things that most other guys would mention or point out. I ride it out anyway.

Soul: Are you hooked up with someone? If not, you must at least have ten guys beating down your door.

I don’t normally like waiting in queues, but give me a magazine to read and I would quite happily take ticket 11!

You are so ridiculously hot it’s not even funny.

You are either a supermodel or a cat-loving spinster I reckon. Am I close?

I continue being direct so she knows I’m not a pussy and that I am going to try to get into her pants. I inject a bit of humour to lighten things up so she sees me as a fun person to talk with and doesn’t feel any pressure.

I get no response to this last message before I head out for Friday night, so I go and have a great weekend. On Monday I remember that she never got back to me, so I chase her a little.

Soul: Jenny, you are too hot to be acting so aloof.

How was your day?

Jenny: It was good good. How about you? How funny!

She’s complied by responding. I’ve already shown her my confident and funny sides, so now I tell her a bit more about myself to build comfort – this way she’s knows I’m not just a dick on legs and can actually rationalise her attraction to me, which she’ll need to do if she is going to meet up with me.

Soul: It was interesting. My whole life is in flux at the moment as I’m trying to figure out where to take my career - do I take the plunge, quit my job and become the serial entrepeneur that I know I am capable of being, or do I work my 9-5 for a few more months.

What do you do with yourself darling, besides looking absolutely gorgeous at all times (if I was you I would look in the mirror and wink seductively at myself all day)? x

Jenny: You seize the opportunities that arise with both hands. I just broke up with my daughter’s dad so I’m trying to sort my life out!

Here’s a good opportunity to be empathetic, and also to qualify her on being a good mother, something which is bound to resonate deeply with her.

Soul: How long ago? I’m so sorry darling, that must be really rough. How long were you guys together?

Your daughter really is cute by the way, and I’ve a suspicion you’re a great mother.

Well I don’t know how much better I can make you feel over facebook, so let’s change the topic. What do you in your spare time, you know for fun?

PS: if the answer is “I have a young daughter, I don’t have fun anymore!!” then tell me about what you used to do for fun!

Jenny: Five years together. I’m a party animal! Just turned! You?

Here I give a very broad answer that shows a range of value across different areas. I don’t go into too much detail, as I want to see what she picks up on so I can figure out how to best build a connection with her.

Soul: Five years, damn. I’m sure you’re gonna be fine sweetie - everything will work itself out.

I party, I play, I work, I dance, I talk, I charm.

What sort of places do you party at?

Jenny: Anywhere with music and alcohol, baby! What do you do?

At this point it’s clear that she’s invested in the interaction as she’s responding to my messages and asking questions back. There’s no point staying in the same medium (facebook); this is a classic point where I need to escalate things to a higher degree of interaction.

Soul: Why are we sending a million messages back and forth?? I think we should take this interaction to the next level - text.

What’s your number darling? I’m going to text you when I’m out partying tonight

Jenny: Text is good! 07XXX XXX XXX

Rather than text her later as suggested and as she expected, I immediately call her – my phone game is solid and I know I can charm her and keep her thinking about me for a while with a quick 5 minute phone call. I call her, make her laugh, talk a bit, and then get ready to go out.

A few days pass. In this time. I try to arrange a meeting with her, and we loosely fix an outing with her mates for Friday night. On Friday she cancels due to her friends flaking. I had a backup anyway, as I never felt it was fixed securely. On Saturday night, I’m exhausted and come home early. I remember Jenny and send her a text to see if she’s up…

Soul: What are you up to right now darling? X

She responds and we start chat on the phone for about twenty minutes. Speaking to a girl late in the night is always good – their emotions are much more pliable when they’re alone in bed and you can normally raise the sexuality level very easily. I make her laugh and smile, lower the tone and pace of my voice and put a hint of directness in everything I say. I don’t get too explicit yet as I’m still calibrating as to how fast to escalate with her.

After our chat, I send her a text so that she has something tangible to anchor all the good feelings I just stimulated in her to…

Soul: Big goodnight kiss for you darling. I like you sleep tight x

Jenny: Thank you! I like you too honey. I’ll give you lots of goodnight kisses xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx (I gave you 17 kisses because that’s my lucky number)

Soul: Stop it, you’re making me smile! Haha, you know I haven’t had a Saturday night in in ages, but it feels so good. I’m gonna give you more kisses back and stroke your cheeks. X

Here I’m trying to escalate things further. If she’s responsive then I will keep on escalating until we get to the sexual tipping point or she stops complying.

Jenny: Well I haven’t had a Saturday night in since last Saturday! I’m glad I make you smile. That’s my aim in life, to be a clown! I’m going to give you more kisses, stroke your cheeks and run my hand down your stomach…

Soul: Darling, you are making me want to run my hand through your hair and kiss you passionately. And then turn you round and kiss the back of your neck- you are too sweet.

Jenny: MIAOW! Taking the bull by the horns are we?! I think you’re hot! I love your face. I saw your muscles- so sexy. Your arms are so huge. I like your skin colour too. Has your ego been massaged enough? Oh and I LOVE your voice. It’s super sexy.

It would be too obvious at this point to give a super sexual escalation response, so I pull it back and bring the comfort levels up again – my overall concern here is NOT to just be a guy she thinks about when she’s horny, but also a guy she can imagine spending time with when she’s not.

Soul: You know what I love about you? How open and honest you are, I’m just the same. Really want to cuddle up with you, chat and fall alseep right now. So tired! x

Jenny: I think my honesty and my openness are my biggest flaws. I’m tired too. Would love a snuggle on those arms. I’d probably want a bit more too though

Soul: Honey, if I wasn’t so tired and needed sleep, I would get in a taxi right now amd give you exactly what you needed. Til then, I’ll just imagine it x

Jenny: Well you’re free to imagine what you want. I give you permission to explore my whole body I’m going to bed now though cos I need sleep too. Will text tomorrow if you want.

I would like to let you see the rest of the conversation but i think its a weee bit too much for you liking and i wouldn't want this post to be too hot too handle you know?? ;) this guy has got so much strategies up his sleeves and he actually have the time in between to think about and executing them accordingly. Geeezz....

" Don't hate the players, hate the game "

apa??

bao, i mean u had a dream ka?

well bao, no matter wat u can tell me coz i'm not bored of listening ur story. how can this kinda story be bored? i hope i get what u trying to mean, ya noe. hehe i was just guessin. hehehe.

its been quite a while since i actually have and eye candy. haha. or should i say a crush? HAHAHA. sometimes its quite nice having someone to look forward to see everyday BUT its not fun when he's with other girls kan.. ish that time bengang wanna smack the girl till she pass out! haha * my fren yeeleng said that she wanna smack the lab assistant till she pass out* just as she said this i was laughin till i'm outta breath, just like wat i always do la. you knoe, face red and all...on friday rite, i was freakin hyper when i went to uni. due to lack of sleep thats coz....

i went out with the bro, eng huat. i oni slept for 3 hours.. yala, lama tak jumpa.. so yak yak yak at mamak after watching Red Cliff. i'm a effin noob and ultra kanchiong person when u ask me to do stuffs that i DONT know. like bookin online? haha i was still trying to book when EH was outside waiting with ww. HAHA malu la...... was still in my PJ's summore.. tsk tsk! then finally EH said just go there and buy la, he must be aherm, bengang edy la. HAHAHA. sorry la i'm an idiot sometimes! ask bao i even ask her for help HAHA. i like talking to EH like in mamak that nite/morning. nice to actually see the real him, i mean the not siao and bull shittin part la. that's what i meant. haha anyhooooo, take care always in S'wak!

eh, okok, continue my own story, the above paragrah is a sidetrack.. haha!! its been 7 months since i actually have a guy that i'm looking forward to see? like an eye candy? haha. YES its 7 months u girls must be thinking " are u sure not ANYONE?" yes i am sure the whoever that u girls are thinking is over ok. :P haha but horh, sumtimes like that oso good la, got crush can be very stressful for complicated person like me. DAMN annoying thinking bout got hope ke? takde ke? ya alllah.... tak suke!!!

but on the other hand..... i miss the feeling of getting butterflies in the stomach, the aherm, infamous kenot-hear-any-other-sound-around-but-his moment.. haha.. eh hello, i'm not D-E-S-P-E-R-A-T-E ok?? just kinda miss these moments that's all. haha. nvm, who noes? maybe i MIGHT have story to tell u soon? * i doubt* haha

ZODIAC is quite nice i feel. the movie zodiac with jake gyllenhaal?

ah bao wanna teach me some bloggin skills edy. i kept her waiting! gtg.

buntut was here!

=)

its the ASS (get it? s?) again .. hehe

eh wait, i got sumthing to tell AGAIN. now i find faris not interesting edy haha. and i think his name is fais not faris? i'm not sure actually coz we're have not been introduced yet.. he's juliana's and yee leng's fren. that's why. it will be weird if i go up to him and said " hi, i'm jue's fren sansan and u?" i'm not that desperate la. like, when i actually see nicely he's not THAT interestin edy. haha. what's worse or should i say more uninteresting is he's attached edy.. aiya forget bout him. Moving on...

Today i understand better about the difference between nutrition and dietetics. ok i wont explain here to confuse yall. haha. met with my tutor and she told us bout it. she's like our mentor. in my course rite, i'll be doin alot of interesting stuff wei... like cooking, baking, visits to hospitals, treating stimulated patient ( meaning not real patient) they might be pharmacy students or the ones from other courses one. the subjects that i will learn the most is biochemistry and physiology. you know, i'm really really fortunate, coz when i heard what our mentor said , in my heart i was like " this is cool man. i like it" so, thanks jie for recommending me this course. coz u understand me very well, u know me inside out that's why u knew this course would suit me. hehe.

Before that, we ( N&D students) gathered in another classroom. there are a few seniors from other courses that asked us to intro ourselves to the whole class so that we get to know each other better since we will be together for like 4 years?? hehe. having a name that's easy to remember is NOT really a good thing sumtimes.. haha.. and we ( juliana, yee leng, and me mostly) are the noisiest in the class wei.. haha.. i'm sure u guys are not surprised bout me being in it rite?? haha.. the rest are so serious quiet.. i was like trying to recall and remember their names. *susah la* hehe nvm fellow coursemates, and again we have like 4 years??

oh bout having names like mine that are easy to remember is NOT fun sumtimes when jue actually said " eh can elect you as class rep, since ur name can be remembered by everyone" errr... nononono.. i dont wanna take the responsibility coz i dont think i can handle it well. we're gonna be so busy.. i dunt think i can do it! haha nvm, nothing to be stressed about.. dont so perasan!! haha.

another quite interesting story is....
jue is sucha helpful dudette. she said she will ask her fren to help me find a place nearby. then she said her fren lives around here only so he will help. then before that we're talking bout what type of guys we will like and all, as u all noe, i like mixed blood guys and usually not so typical chinese lookin guys rite? hehe. so, jue said the guy that will help me to find house is not bad lookin but he's a little short i think "* short again *tsktsk** nvm... then she said, u noe daniel bego?? i was like err yeah... then she said he's the one that will be helpin me to find house or apartment.. i was like, huh?? did my ears hear wrongly or wat?? then she said too bad he's younger than us one year.. then i was like.. " eh, i'm younger than yall one year la.. sooo leave him to me.. hahahah" BEFORE that, yeeleng was like interested also but i cant remember exactly what she said. then, i asked her to keep her hands off since she's got a boy edy. haha she said " aiya frens only wat" yeah rite, "frens" hahah.. so we were laughing our heads off la. oh jue is a swimmer, i think she must be a hardcore swimmer coz she has a broader shoulder. and she must be quite good to get to knoe Daniel Bego rite? since he represents Malaysia.

Oops...i didnt go for the orientation again. hehe. its just games. and i heard from yeeleng who's fren told her. they went thrown flour and onion juice by senior.. yuck! haha.. its till too late that's why i nvr go. its till 2100 hours. tak mau la. jue asked " if its early, u will go meh??" hehe actually no lor... ahaha..

i'm skipping tomoro's orientation also. thursday one i'm goin since its some singing thingy so we'll just be in the auditorium.

my slipper died AGAIN. (this happens like 39010419.99 times coz i'm very chor-loh meaning rough) it terputus when i was on my way to the car. HAHA lucky wei. no more flats have to wear heels tomoro. i dont wannnn... lucky tomoro whole day also in auditorium. so okla. not much walking. bao i use my hair rubberband to tie around my feet to walk to the car. hehe like in taylors except this time i nvr ask err what's his name... oh.. kevin to " borrow" me his socks?? hahah long story la this one. bao would understand. haha.

must go shoppin. to buy more flats and clothes only if its cheap.. hhehe.. must budget..!!

ok. not so long post today hehe.

see u girls soon.

i miss hannah, yoon chyn, PUC, peili, bawanie and shahman and eng huat also. hehe u guys are my closest and bestest and awesome-est ppl in my life!

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